In the journey of aging gracefully, finding the right doctors can make all the difference for seniors and their caregivers. Unfortunately, the frustration of not having the right diagnosis or treatment plan can be overwhelming.
From misdiagnoses to ineffective treatments, the repercussions can affect not only physical health but also emotional well-being. Worse, it can drive a wedge between family members who want the best for their seniors but see a whole different picture.
When we find themselves facing these frustrations, it often stems from a lack of understanding or communication with our healthcare providers. Feeling unheard or misunderstood can lead to a sense of helplessness and reliance on medications as a quick fix. This reliance, however, can lead to a cycle of dependence and further health complications.
One of the primary frustrations we encounter without the right doctors is the feeling of being dismissed or unheard. When doctors fail to listen attentively to our concerns or dismiss our symptoms as a normal part of aging, it will lead to delayed or incorrect diagnoses. This delay in addressing underlying health issues can result in worsening conditions and unnecessary suffering.
My own experience...
As a physician assistant working in the urgent care clinics, I saw countless times when patients were medicated instead of finding the root cause of the problem and fixing it. Medication is never the only answer. With the internet at our fingertips, there is a vast amount of knowledge we should bring with us to our doctors and ask them for their opinions.
Overemphasis on medication as the solution to every problem can age us quickly. While medications have their place in healthcare, relying solely on them without addressing lifestyle factors or exploring alternative treatments can lead to adverse side effects and dependency. We may find ourselves trapped in a cycle of managing symptoms rather than addressing the root cause of their health issues, mainly weight and sedentary lifestyle.
Furthermore, the lack of personalized care and attention can leave seniors feeling disconnected from their doctor. How many times have our caregivers heard their parents exclaim, “Oh, what’s the use of going to the doctor? He’ll only give me another pill!”. Without a doctor who takes the time to understand their unique needs and preferences, seniors feel like just another number in a system focused on treating symptoms rather than a human being.
Don't put all of this on your doctor
But to be fair, this is not entirely your doctor's fault. The healthcare system they are employed by pushes doctors, physician assistants, and nurse practitioners to see more and more patients so they can make a profit. What once was a 45-minute meeting is now a 10-minute visit. In fact, it takes the same amount of time to drive through a fast-food restaurant and get your food as it does to see a doctor.
But, when seniors and caregivers take charge of their health and actively participate in their care, the benefits are profound. By seeking out the right doctors who prioritize personalized care, seniors can experience a transformation in their overall well-being.
This is proven over and over again in our fast-growing “solo” practices of direct primary care where the doctor is not driven by employers but works for her patients. She is not paid based on the visit but receives a monthly fee (often less than a cell phone bill). Our patients can call, visit, or text their personal doctors as often as they like.
3 Secrets to Finding the Right Doctor
One of the secrets to incredible medical care lies in communication. Seniors and caregivers should feel comfortable discussing their concerns, preferences, and goals with their doctors openly. This open dialogue fosters a trusting relationship and ensures that the medical care provided aligns with their individual needs.
Another secret is the importance of preventive care. Instead of waiting until health issues escalate, seniors should prioritize regular check-ups and screenings to catch potential problems early. With proactive medical care, seniors can address health concerns before they become more serious, leading to better outcomes and improved quality of life.
Additionally, the third secret is YOU! Seniors can stay young by prioritizing lifestyle factors such as nutrition, exercise, and social engagement. The right doctors will emphasize the importance of these factors in maintaining overall health and well-being. By adopting healthy habits and staying active, seniors can promote longevity and vitality as they age.
It's essential to recognize the pitfalls of excessive medication and reliance on external devices. While medications have their place in managing certain conditions, seniors should be cautious of overprescribing and explore alternative treatments when appropriate. Likewise, while assistive devices can provide support, they should not replace physical activity or independence.
And finally, seniors are living longer. We are staying healthier and being serious about our longevity and happiness. We are determined to avoid the pitfalls of overprescribing and misdiagnoses.
Come join us at the Senior Freedom Club, where all things are moving in the right direction.
