July 3, 2024
Forgetting Again? 5 Signs Your Loved One Needs a Helping Hand

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As our loved ones get older, it can be tricky to figure out if they need extra help. Are they doing okay on their own, or is it time to think about other living options? In this post, we'll look at signs that show an older person might not be able to live alone anymore, and we'll share tips for handling this change.

Noticing Warning Signs

It's crucial to pay attention to signs that an older person might need more help. Ignoring these signs can lead to dangerous situations. Here are some common indicators:

Changes in Personal Care

If you notice your loved one not showering, dressing neatly, or taking care of their hygiene, it could mean they need more help. This might be because they're having physical difficulties or feeling emotionally down. For example, joint pain might make showering hard, or depression could lead to neglecting personal care.

Forgetting Things

Frequent forgetfulness can be a sign of memory problems. This could indicate a bigger issue like dementia, which makes living alone unsafe. Forgetting to turn off the stove or take medication can lead to serious accidents. Early intervention can make a significant difference.

Trouble Moving Around

If your loved one is struggling to move around or falling more often, it might be time to get them some help. Difficulty with mobility can make daily tasks hard and put them at risk of injury. Addressing this early can prevent serious falls and maintain their independence longer.

Withdrawal from Friends and Activities

Withdrawal from social activities can be a sign of depression or physical pain. If your loved one is avoiding friends and hobbies, it's important to find out why. Chronic pain can be treated, and there are many ways to help with depression. Don’t let them suffer in silence.

Mood Swings and Irritability

Mood swings and irritability can signal cognitive decline, depression, or pain. Diseases under the dementia umbrella can cause rapid personality changes. Getting evaluated by a doctor is crucial, as early diagnosis can help manage these conditions better.

Checking Their Home

Ensuring your loved one's home is safe is vital. Look for hazards like loose rugs, poor lighting, and clutter that could cause accidents. A safe environment helps them stay independent longer.

Real-Life Examples

Example 1: Changes in Personal Hygiene

Consider Sarah, whose 75-year-old mother started neglecting her hygiene. She wore wrinkled clothes and skipped showers. Sarah discovered her mom had joint pain, making daily tasks hard. By talking openly, they found solutions together, like home care services for personal tasks.

Example 2: Memory Lapses and Forgetfulness

Take Mr. Anderson, an 80-year-old retiree. His son James noticed he often forgot his medication. After discussing it, they found out it was a simple medication interaction issue. By addressing this early, they avoided more serious health risks.

Tips for Handling This Change

  1. Communicate Openly: Have honest conversations with your loved one about the changes you notice. Approach these talks with empathy and understanding.

  2. Seek Professional Help: Don’t hesitate to consult doctors, therapists, or home care specialists. They can provide valuable insights and solutions.

  3. Make Safety a Priority: Ensure their home is free from hazards. Simple modifications like installing grab bars or improving lighting can make a big difference.

See my Home Safety Checklist before you miss anything that should have been changed. 

STAT:  “90% of falls could have been prevented had someone looked around the house and made a few 5-minute changes.”

As our loved ones age, recognizing these signs can help us ensure they get the support they need. It's not about losing independence but about enhancing their quality of life and keeping them safe.

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